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Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Virgin Porn Stars

Women and sex is always a tough and hard topic to touch. Reason being, women are typically sent a message that our role is to be virgin porn stars. Meaning we are typically expected to be as innocent  and untouched as a virgin, but also when we're in the act of having sex we're to be highly experienced to our partner. Where does one find the experience to please her partner if she's also required to be as close to virginal status without actually being one? Women are always told to keep their number of sex partners down, and women who experiment more with sex are usually given names like whore, hoe and giving outdated medical terms like nymphomaniac. [Nymphomaniacs woman who has abnormally excessive and uncontrollable sexual desire.] It's crazy that terms like these where  created to diagnose women with high sex drive. A way for us to feel like loving sex was abnormal for us. This is a huge pill to swallow all at once.


In almost all cultures around the world, a women's virginity is very important and prevalent in the process of marriage. Even here in the USA, where virginity isn't major in marriage, we still wear white dresses or try to present to our future husband a clean innocent past. Anything that makes you seem whorish is usually not spoken of, if a long term relationship is the goal. We lie about the amount of sexual partners we have, have one night stands and act like it's something we would shockingly never do. We've all used the "wow, I've never done this before" line. Knowing we're really trying to cover our ass, so we’re closer to the virgin mark, than hoe, on that female sex spectrum. 


Seriously I am sick of us having to do that, I love sex, and definitely not afraid to say it. Nothing wrong with having experience in the bedroom as long its protected and every sex act you're involved in is in fact something YOU want to partake in. People forget how serious sex is because it’s done so casually. You're doing something that is done to bring life into the world, increase the population and to carry on genes to future generations of people. This is a colossal responsibility. Sex should hardly be something you look back and have regrets about, because sharing your body should be held at a high regard. I say if YOU choose and like to have one night stand, a threesome with your husband, bring in whips and chains, or even save it for the right man. Go ahead and do so, and feel absolutely no shame in doing it.

 By Naima Muhammad @Queen_Naima



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