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Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Things That Make You A Slut Vs. Things That Don’t Make You A Slut


I read this a few days ago and I couldn't agree more. I don't like using insulting language to describe people, and most certainty not women, but sometimes, the platform pump fits. I've always been a woman who has felt women and our love for sex has been suppressed by words and labels such as whore, slut and hoe. Not wanting to express certain sexual fantasy or fetishes because labels, that lead us to feeling less than a woman. 
                            [Sluts Unite]

I've always been one to say unless you're getting paid for services you definitely are not a slut, but now I go further. If you proceed with sexual acts because its what you want, if you aren't involved in these activities to fill a void or be liked, and if you have full control of your sex life and what you allow sexually, you are not a hoe. You are a woman who is sexually liberated and there's nothing you should be afraid of. The world should in fact fear you, because you are a goddess  who has come full circle with herself, and have embraced the one thing the world has taught you to hate about yourself, and that's your love for sex.  So read the following with precaution  and if you are offended, know that i'm not calling you a slut, but i'm calling you a misguided woman. Get back on track, and learn to make sex about you. You have clearly given the man all the power in your sex and love life and you need to get it back, that's usually the life of a whore, and i'm sure that isn't your goal. 

You are a Slut: 

  • You hook up with a man you don’t know because you are hoping that he’ll want to see you again and it will eventually lead to a relationship.
  • You have sex with a man who only wants to have sex with you, but you want more than sex from him.
  • You feel guilty after having sex.
  • You think that if you just give him a good blowjob, how could he possibly not want more, and eventually you can build a relationship with him.
  • You look at people in good relationships and are unsure how they are so lucky to be in one, and acknowledge right away that they are better than you.
  • Getting a hot guy to sleep with you makes you feel accomplished, but then you are confused and hurt as to why he doesn't want to be with you yet he swoons over other, less attractive girls.
  • If a man does not want to have sex with you, [think] it is your fault and you are unattractive.

You are not a Slut: 

  • You have sex with a man because you want to have sex with him.
  • You may have had sex with many men, because you wanted to have sex with each of those men.
  • You can tell the difference between when a man wants to have sex with you and if a man wants more than sex from you, and you keep yourself on the same page as him.
  • If a man does not want to have sex with you, they are fucked in the head ‘cause you are hot as hell.
  • You know that you deserve to be loved, you are independent, and you don’t need anyone to love you because you love yourself first. 

By: Queen Twitter/Instagram @thequeenspeaks_



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